Sex in a Pan

1/2 cup butter 1 cup flour 1/2 cup chopped pecans 1 8 oz pkg cream cheese 1 cup icing sugar 2 4 oz containers cool whip (2 small size) 1 4 serving size pkg instant choc. pudding mix 1 4 serving pkg instant butterscotch pudding mix 1/4 cup tia maria 2-3/4 cups milk

Cut butter into flour. Stir in pecans. Press into 13x9 pan. Bake 350 for 20 minutes and cool. Beat cream cheese until fluffy. Add sugar and 1 container cool whip. Spread over crust and freeze. Combine puddings, tia maris and milk. Beat 2 minutes. Spread over cheese layer. Freeze til firm. Top with remaining cool whip. Sprinkle with grated chocolate and pecans.

One of gramma's favorite desserts. The nice thing is that you can make it ahead and keep it in the freezer. You can also put the left overs back into the freezer and save for another time.